It all started with me going to Kanpur in Uttar Pradesh, to visit my uncle. A second cousin of mine also happened to be there, leaving for Bhopal, his home, a day earlier than I was supposed to leave for Mumbai. He convinced me to come along with him to Bhopal to meet other relatves there, and with a spirit of adventure, I accepted, cancelling my Class II AC ticket on Pushpak express.
All went well and I reached Bhopal station, the next morning at 6, all fresh for the ride in the unreserved compartment back home, to Mumbai.
Now at this point, let me tell you, I am no stranger to unreserved compartments, with me travelling in them every month for 4 hrs at a stretch, from Pune to Mumbai.
BUT WHAT THE HELL!!!
I and my bag, a large handbag at that, were not able to proceed further than the washbasin, so full was the train, with, let alone sitting, no space to stand without stepping on someone's foot. And the whole compartment was filled with Bhaiyyas(people hailing from Uttar Pradesh), smelling and screeching God knows what to God knows whom!!!
I am pretty sure that I must have been the only person in the whole compartment seating 72, holding around 150, who was wearing shoes and socks!
I bravely smiled at my cousin, promising to call the moment I reached home, and saw his worried face grow smaller and smaller as the train picked up speed.
Though originally from Lucknow, I am more at home in Mumbai and speaking English comes easier to me than Hindi, and all these GAON WAALE bhaiyye, pretty much irritated me with their un sophisticated manner of speaking. By 11, I was ready to jump off the moving train, the only thing stopping me from doing that was the crowd of people standing between me and the door, 1 metre away.
The compartment was so full that a guy was actually sitting behind the pipe that proceeds from the was basin to the floor!!!! It was as bad as a fully loaded local train in Mumbai or Pune or any other metro in India, only, in this case the journey was to last 12 whopping hours!!!
I saw a pretty interesting, and to some, shocking thing on the train. Pushpak Express is a superfast train and time between stoppage is large. What I saw there really blew my pants off.An industrious tea seller climbed out of the reserved compartment next to ours, pulled out a hook attached to himself via a stout rope and flicked it onto the bars of our compartment, swung himself from the other compartment's door to ours, and calmly went on to sell his tea. All this happened with the train moving at 100 km/hr!!! I kid you not!
The first stop for the train Bhusaval came and went at around 1, where I got a pepsi to drink, the first thing that went into my empty stomach that day. I was not really hungry, what with the smell and all!!!!
But the real reason why i drank that pepsi was because i had almost fainted that morning, standing in such rough conditions for 5 hours at a stretch. But it was those GAON WAALE BHAIYYE that helped me, sat me down and got a banana from their bag and made me eat... Just a little gesture that touched me all the way down to my socked feet!!! I mean, here they were, packed in the compartment like sardines in a can, and they come to help me out in my misery.
After that they made some place in that crowded area ( I absolutely don't know how!!) and asked me, no, forced me to sit down and finish the banana, followed by plenty of water.
The rest of the journey was better, as I talked to them and they talked to me. I found out that they had their own problems travelling in this way, and not everyone in there was poor, to be travelling that way. We talked for 4 hours after that where I actually learnt quite a lot about them. They were skilled workers with families in UP and worked for 6 months at a stretch to send enough money to put their sons and daughters into decent schools and colleges. They were not doing this by choice and some were now pretty well off, to be able to travel in reserved compartments, but unable to secure the seats.
The train reached Kalyan station in the outskirts of Mumbai at 6 PM, 12 hours after the journey had begun, and I bade farewell to those people in the train who were good to me even when they themselves were suffering in the compartment.
I am very fortunate to have been born into a family where there was never a dearth of the necessary things in life, and some of the not so necessary things too. I have since then learnt the lesson about not to categorize anyone on the basis of their outer appearance, because more often than not, those very dusty bodies hide a golden heart.
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nice one kaustubh..i am sure it must have been a hell of a journey..anger first..surprise later..lesson learnt in life at the end..we are so used to categorizing and stereotyping people that we forget to see the people behind the stereotype..i am sure the bhaiyyas in the compartment might have labelled u on some stereotype too..but it didnt stop them from offering u food n water..
nice account..blog on !
-putan
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hello miss sujatha
i do agree with what u said... but i should also say that, its just that the people have gotten a powdery layer of ego over their golden hearts... do you remember 26/7?
no matter who was in what staus, every bbody pitched in when the rain god got furious on mumbai...
so dont write off those who travel in the ac just yet ;-)
miss usha ,
the very purpose of writing the blog was to get that kind of a reaction that i got from you. and i do appreciate your patience in reading through the whole (in some parts boring i suppose) blog
regards
kaustubh
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Kaustubh,
Wonderful....you have special insight into issues that many would not notice.....
glad I got to read this blog.
Kalyanee
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Dear Subbu sir,
at the risk of sounding patronising, i will say that it was my pleasure to respond to your comment as i look forward to people leaving comments. it shows that people have actually gone through some pains to go through such a long blog that I posted.
I have to agree about your point that as long as we hold no expectations from anyone, everything and everyone is good. I have not just seen it in the train but also in our daily life.
thanks ..
Dear Ms Nargis.
the tea seller incident was just one incident on one train that I have described to you. I am sure people have seen and have been seen doing stuff much more weird, scary and interesting, not necessarily in that order.
this blog was not intended to bring forward my misery (which I fondly look back towards today) but the humour in the whole situation.
That day I had promised myself never to undergo such TORTURE again, but today, if the opportunity comes,I am ready to do something just as crazy just for the kick it gives one's mentality.
I totally agree with your thoughts about the Indian railways, about it being the country's life line, but I also feel that for such a progressive economy like ours, its high time that some one (read the railway ministry) did something to improve the situation before a totally avoidable disaster forces us to do it anyways.
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A lovely statement of yours " On the contrary, I have since made a concious decison everytime I travel not to judge anyone by their outer appearances." holds Good to everyone.
Everyone is good to us until we expect nothing from them and we are too good to them till we fulfill their expectations.
subbu
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Dear Subbu Sir, Mr learning,
I fully appreciate your comments. I have to agree that due to the Indian population, the overloading of the public transport is inevitable. And I have not forgotten the valuable lessons learnt by me that day. On the contrary, I have since made a concious decison everytime I travel not to judge anyone by their outer appearances. You are also invited to share your views and experiences here for a more comprehensive read.
Thanks
regards
Kaustubh
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Dear Subbu Sir, Mr learning,
I fully appreciate your comments. I have to agree that due to the Indian population, the overloading of the public transport is inevitable. And I have not forgotten the valuable lessons learnt by me that day. On the contrary, I have since made a concious decison everytime I travel not to judge anyone by their outer appearances. You are also invited to share your views and experiences here for a more comprehensive read.
Thanks
regards
Kaustubh
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That's a part and parcel of a reqular traveler's woes and ways to learn the commoner's life styles.
We can learn many lessons from such long journeys ( say 18 hours to 46 hours ).
As a reqular visitor, my personal experiances last 33 years, ( where some times lucky to get tatkal, EQ and last minitue reservations ) forced to continue journey in un-reserved compartments and by the courtesy of co-passengers, manage to reach the desinations.
As the population is high at the same time there are less number of trains and always crowded, one has to opt to go by the unreserved, if we have to reach the place within time.
There were many memorable experiances and good number of friends we come across in these trips.
cya....subbu
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